destructive relationship

 I have been in a relationship for 4 years now been diagnoise wtih fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue,and chronic neck pain,  My partner has no understanding towards what Iam going through he thinks its all in my head has never involved himself  in learning about what I need to get better he does nothing socially or any activiies with me . I feel so alone and have know one to talk to who understands what  Ive been going through or how I feel.

I know how you feel , I've had it for 10 Yrs. now. I've had even my own grown children tell me they think I should do this or that. And I've sufferred the cruelest comments from family members. And I've put myself in the hospital twice because I don't have a life, or anyone to talk to either. I did get disability, But what that also does to your mind is awful too. My husband trys to understand sometimes. But our marriage has sufferred agreat deal as well. If you would like to have someone to talk to that would be great. My name is Chris Noble My E-mail is noble.christine@att.net. Hope to hear from you soon Chris.

The fact lies that you are a good mother and you care for your step daughter. This is the time to be patient and I think being stern can have a negative impact on the child. Try to be as supportive as possible and I think she will get adjusted pretty soon to you being around her.