too nice!!

i was just informed that i am being too nice to my new boyfriends son. i was invited to move in with my new boyfriend of 7 months, i accepted.  i thought things were going great until i was told i am doing too much for my boyfriends son.  i cook for both. i straighten-up when need be. i do all the laundry.  i talk to myboyfriends son when he is struggling with lifes problems.  i dont know how to stop being nice! what do i do?

Who told you this?  If it is an outside person (not someone close i.e.  your b/f) then I would just ignore it. 

How is that being to nice? Sounds loving to me.

I am a very loving and compassionate person, also. I get the same reaction from my sisters in law. I am always trying to give them posittive advice and protect and listen to the children and when I feel the kids are being abused, I am not afraid to step in and tell the parents what they are doing wrong. They almost always call me an expletitive and I am in no way an expletitive. I love people and I love listening and advising them.