Re: Sexless Marriage

It usually happens that after birth of child sex drive is major problem for most of women. This is because they are now more concerned about their baby and they are entering the phase of mother.

When I was 19 I had my daughter and my sex life was fine. Now I have not been with her father for a long time. I had meet somebody else and 2003 I had my son. After I had my son I did not feel like haveing sex or even be touch. He is 5 years old and I still feel the same way.

Have you guys thought of seeing a sex therapist. I've heard that this sometimes helps couples. Good luck to you both

I know what your going through. I'm only 26 years old and my fiance is 28. We used to have sex all the time. and we both loved it. I still do. We had a baby boy one year ago this month and over the past 6 months it's been horrible. She has almost no sex drive. I don't know if it's the birth control or what. But i feel like i can't take it anymore. We are both still so young. And like you said I am so depressed and miserable and frustated. I don't know what to do. I've been trying things like pills and creams and that kind of stuff for her but nothing has worked yet. there are more issues going on in our lives but i'll have to get into that another time. got to go. But will be back soon. Just know that there is some one else out there who knows exactly what your going through. It sucks. Talk to you later

My wife and I have been married for 17 years, for the past couple of years her sex drive has slowed way down almost stop. We have tried everything, she is self concience of her weight. We have three sons, thats streeful enough she is a school teacher(stress). Itry to tell her she looks good, but you know how that goes still nothing. We have a good marriage all but that, if you find a cure please tell me,Im only 38 and she is 36 we should not be going thru this