The existence of the female G-spot has been the subject of much debate since Dr. Ernst Grafenberg, a gynecologist known for his research on the female genitalia, first described the pleasure zone—and gave his name to the idea—in the 1950s.

While studies continue to be published, far less research has been devoted to the question of whether men have an equivalent to the G-spot. And many would be surprised to learn that they do: the prostate.

Anatomy of the Prostate

The prostate, a walnut-sized gland located below the bladder and next to the rectum, serves a primary role in the male sexual response. It secretes a milky alkaline fluid that makes up approximately 50 to 75 percent of male ejaculate. This fluid helps the sperm move through the urethra (the tube that carries the urine from the bladder), and protects the spermatozoa from the acidity of the vagina.

Is the Prostate the Male G-Spot?

If the female G-spot is said to be a highly excitable area that heightens orgasm, then in many ways the prostate can be seen as its male counterpart. Prostate massage, or milking, is the stimulation of the gland to the moment of orgasm, which can also be achieved through receptive anal intercourse. (The only way the prostate can be felt is through the anus.) According to the 1982 book The G Spot, men who achieved orgasm through prostatic stimulation described sensations similar to female orgasm.

Are There Risks Associated With Prostate Massage?

While prostate massage is fairly common, there are occasional injuries that may occur, including:

  • Hemorrhoids
  • Anal fissures (tears in the tissue)
  • Hemorrhage (bleeding)
  • Inflammation of the anal tissue
  • Infection

If you're considering adding prostate massage to your sexual repertoire, be sure to talk with your partner. Experimentation is a healthy part of any sex life. But for it to work to your benefit, comfort and communication are key.

Rafael Pajaro, MD, reviewed this article.


 

Source:

Alice Kahn Ladas, Beverly Whipple, and John D. Perry. The G Spot and Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality. New York: Henry Holt & Company, 1982, 2005.