Women's Health - Expert Q&As

My partner and I just relocated. How can we make the most of the move?

Relocating is one of life's top stressors, but you can reduce your anxiety by doing things such as learning about the new place now.

My partner can't control her mood swings. What should I do?

When your partner's reactions turn into over-the-top anger, it's often best to stay calm but warm.

How can I figure out where my relationship is headed?

Even though most of us want to know our partner's feelings and intentions, it's usually better to let the relationship play out on its own.

We never had a honeymoon. How can we plan the perfect one?

Great honeymoons can occur any time in a marriage--and can even be more fun if you don't go away immediately after the wedding!

How do my partner and I stop fighting so often?

Smart and happy couples manage and expect disagreements, but they usually know how to "dial down" the intensity.

How can propose to my girlfriend in a memorable way?

Great marriage proposals don't have to set the world on fire. It's more important that it honors your partner s interests and fantasies.

I really don't like my friend's partner. What do I do?

You don't have to love the partners of your friends and family, but you do need to find some common ground and a way to get along.

How can I become better at detecting liars?

Reading people is not an exact science, but you should know about key signs such as shaking legs and looking away.

I've been divorced, but I'm still making poor choices when selecting a partner. What should I do?

Having a broken heart in love doesn't always make you wiser. Some of the top things to look for are similar sense of humor and ability to apologize.

My partner's become withdrawn since being diagnosed with a serious illness. What should I do?

Dealing with a loved one's illness is a balancing act between respecting their privacy and pushing them to relate and talk.

I think my partner is addicted to porn. What should I do?

Looking at pornography doesn't have to be a problem, but you do need to worry if it becomes uncontrollable, abusive, or detrimental to your intimate relationship.

My partner and I recently separated. What's the best way to use this time?

Separations are more than just time to date other people. They are opportunities to learn about you.

Why do I fall in love with the same kind of people even though they make me unhappy?

If you want to change your love life, focus on changing how you interact with your partner.

How can I turn around my sexless marriage?

There are many reasons for sexless marriages, but you can become intimate again by taking steps such as talking about it or initiating affection.

How do I manage conflicting work schedules in my relationship?

Conflicting schedules certainly strain a relationship, but you can lessen the stress by doing things such as leaving loving notes and getting organized.

My wife and I only have sex once or twice a month. Is this normal?

Victoria Zdrok, Ph.D., answers a reader's question about whether his sex life with his wife is normal.

Q: How do I stop feeling jealous of others?

Jealousy is an uncomfortable emotion, but if used wisely, it can motivate you to improve yourself.

Why should I forgive someone?

Most of us have been hurt emotionally by someone. Wisdom is deciding why, when, and how to forgive.

Do I empathize too much?

You may value empathy, but sometimes too much empathy can lead to dating and mating mistakes.

How can I stop putting things off?

It s too easy to put off unpleasant tasks, but there are ways to get going.

Should women propose marriage?

Even though women are physicians, attorneys, financial executives, athletes, and breadwinners, it may not be in their best interest to propose marriage.

Is remarrying my ex a bad idea?

Remarrying your ex takes a great deal of mutual maturity and wisdom.

How do I get the most out of living together?

Living together is on the rise. To make it work, follow some new guidelines.

What's the true path to happiness?

Many of us have heard how to find happiness, but don t believe all you hear.

How do I fall in love using my head and not my heart?

Falling in love involves both your head and heart. Success lies in knowing how to use both wisely.

Why is it so difficult to find the right partner?

You still might be able to beat the odds of finding a healthy love-match. You need luck, timing, and a mindset that isn t set on perfection.

I am a breast cancer survivor and have found life after treatment to be extremely challenging. Are there any resources available specifically for breast cancer survivors, like myself?

Dr. Buzaglo answers a reader's question about finding resources and emotional support specifically for breast cancer survivors.

Why do I end up with "basket cases for partners?

Relationship expert LeslieBeth Wish, Ed.D., answers a reader's question about common relationship problems in our exclusive weekly series.

Are contraceptives dangerous or beneficial to a woman's health?

Obstetrician and Gynecologist Dr. Robert S. Goldfarb answers a reader's question about the pros and cons of long term contraceptive use.

Is it safe to continue taking antidepressants during pregnancy? If not, is there an alternative?

Obstetrician and Gynecologist Dr. Robert S. Goldfarb answers a reader's question about continuing use of her antidepressants during pregnancy.