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I'm dating the person with whom I cheated. How can I learn to trust him?

The quality of your relationship and the maturity in each of you are the best preventions against cheating again.

It's Valentine's Day, and I'm single and miserable. Is there anyway I can turn it around?

Valentine's Day doesn't just have to be for couples. Include all the other people you care about in your life.

Every year I drop my New Year's resolutions by February. What can I do to keep them?

Sustaining success in New Year's resolutions requires you to alter your brain's pleasure map, but if you plan correctly, you can succeed.

I'm about to meet my partner's parents. How can I make a good impression?

Instead of engaging in small talk with the parents of your partner, ask them about their interests and observe the family's interaction.

My husband is always picking on me in public. How can I get him to stop?

Public shaming went out with the Puritans. There are other ways for couples to give and receive feedback in the presence of others.

How do I get through tough times in my relationship?

Don’t call it quits with your partner just because you are going through tough times. Here are some tips to strengthen your relationship.

How soon should I introduce my boyfriend to my children?

It's important that your partner spend time with your children, but don't foster relationships between them too soon.

I am days away from my wedding, and I am seriously thinking of calling it off. How do I know if I am doing the right thing?

If you are having serious last minute doubts about your wedding, seek professional counseling and advice from trusted and wise friends.

I am newly married to a wonderful man with two children, and I'm embarrassed to admit that I am jealous of the time he spends with his ex. What can I do to get over it?

Remarriages are tough enough, so if your new spouse has children, accept that he or she will probably need to see the children's other parent.

I think I started sex too soon with a new guy. Is it possible to slow things down?

Just because you've had sex with someone too early in a relationship, it doesn't mean that you have to continue with it.

My husband just lost his job. How can I help him through it?

Stress is high when your partner is suddenly out of work, so it's especially important that you stay calm and positive and work as a problem-solving team.

How do I know if someone is lying?

Relationship expert LeslieBeth Wish, Ed.D., answers readers' questions about reading people in our exclusive weekly series.

When is it okay to lie?

Psychologist and licensed clinical social worker Dr. LeslieBeth Wish answers a reader's question about the benefits of veering from the truth.

What should I do if my partner and I no longer share the same values?

Changing the rules, limits, and values in your relationship is difficult, but sometimes you have to be true to yourself.

How can I trust my partner not to stray if tempted?

Trust can be broken, and forgiveness can be difficult, but sometimes, to build trust, you first have to give it.

My parents don't approve of my partner. What should I do?

Don't just dismiss your parents' disapproval of your mate—sometimes their concerns have merit.

What can I do if my partner cannot get past a serious loss?

We all have unique responses to losing someone or something important to us, but beware of signs that your reactions are too frequent, intense, or long.

Sex with a new partner is always disappointing. What can I do about it?

It's not unusual to have “first-time sex let down” in a relationship. With certain techniques, however, you can increase your satisfaction.

My partner can't control her mood swings. What should I do?

When your partner's reactions turn into over-the-top anger, it's often best to stay calm but warm.

How can I figure out where my relationship is headed?

Even though most of us want to know our partner's feelings and intentions, it's usually better to let the relationship “play out” on its own.

My partner and I just relocated. How can we make the most of the move?

Relocating is one of life's top stressors, but you can reduce your anxiety by doing things such as learning about the new place now.

How do my partner and I stop fighting so often?

Smart and happy couples manage and expect disagreements, but they usually know how to "dial down" the intensity.

How can propose to my girlfriend in a memorable way?

Great marriage proposals don't have to set the world on fire. It's more important that it honors your partner’s interests and fantasies.

I really don't like my friend's partner. What do I do?

You don't have to love the partners of your friends and family, but you do need to find some common ground and a way to get along.

How can I become better at detecting liars?

Reading people is not an exact science, but you should know about key signs such as shaking legs and looking away.

I've been divorced, but I'm still making poor choices when selecting a partner. What should I do?

Having a broken heart in love doesn't always make you wiser. Some of the top things to look for are similar sense of humor and ability to apologize.

My partner's become withdrawn since being diagnosed with a serious illness. What should I do?

Dealing with a loved one's illness is a balancing act between respecting their privacy and pushing them to relate and talk.

I think my partner is addicted to porn. What should I do?

Looking at pornography doesn't have to be a problem, but you do need to worry if it becomes uncontrollable, abusive, or detrimental to your intimate relationship.

My partner and I recently separated. What's the best way to use this time?

Separations are more than just time to date other people. They are opportunities to learn about you.

Why do I fall in love with the same kind of people—even though they make me unhappy?

If you want to change your love life, focus on changing how you interact with your partner.

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